Midnight Ramblings

“I’d just like things to go back to the way they were before.”
Have you ever really thought about this phrase, and the fact that in itself, it is an oxymoron?
Because things are never the way they were before. it is impossible. People change, even over a period of a few days, enough so that things will never really be the same.
That is the purpose of humanity, to be constantly changing, evolving, becoming better.
it is impossible.
yet how often do we wonder to ourselves if things will ever just be the way they were before?

When a person leaves for college, they leave behind the life they once knew. Nothing, and I do mean NOTHING will ever be the same Similarly, I think when people graduate college, it is a change of that sort. Nothing will be the same. Yet these are merely extreme examples. How friends relate to each other changes over time too. People can grow together, and people can grow apart.

And that’s where I have my issue.
because I HATE growing apart from friends. Granted, there are some times when it is easier than others. Not being in the same general vicinity has been always been some kind of factor.
But the friends I have now… I NEVER want to lose them. It’s such a fabulous and elite group of people.
I love them all, each in a very unique way, all very platonic.

This post has deviated from its original topic, but I hope it finds you well.

~ by njgarrod on January 10, 2009.